From Idolizing to Idealizing Love: Parasocial Relationship and Romantic Beliefs Among Emerging Adults K-Pop Fans
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K-Pop Fans, Parasocial Relationship, Romantic BeliefsAbstract
The development of K-Pop culture in Indonesia has encouraged the increasing intensity of interactions between fans and their idols through various social media platforms. Continuous exposure to K-Pop idol content on social media enables fans to form parasocial relationships, which are one-sided emotional attachments toward media figures without direct reciprocal interaction. This phenomenon potentially shapes romantic beliefs among fans, referring to individuals’ idealized beliefs about love and romantic relationships. This phenomenon is particularly relevant among emerging adults, as individuals at this developmental stage are in the process of exploring identity, emotional intimacy, and expectations regarding romantic relationships. This study employed a quantitative correlational approach using purposive sampling technique. The participants consisted of 265 respondents aged 18–25 years who actively use social media as K-Pop fans. The research instruments used were the Parasocial Relationship Scale (PRS) developed by Claessens and Van den Bulck (2015) and the Romantic Beliefs Scale (RBS) developed by Sprecher and Metts (1989). Data analysis was conducted using Pearson Product Moment correlation technique. The results showed a positive relationship between parasocial relationship and romantic beliefs (r = 0.339; p < 0.01). These findings indicate that the higher the intensity of parasocial relationship experienced by K-Pop idol fans, the higher the romantic beliefs possessed by individuals.
Perkembangan budaya K-Pop di Indonesia mendorong meningkatnya intensitas interaksi antara penggemar dan idolanya melalui berbagai platform media sosial. Paparan konten idol K-Pop di media sosial yang berlangsung secara terus-menerus memungkinkan penggemar membentuk parasocial relationship, yaitu keterikatan emosional yang terbentuk terhadap figur media secara satu arah dan tidak terdapat interaksi timbal balik secara langsung. Hal ini berpotensi membentuk romantic beliefs pada penggemar, yaitu keyakinan ideal yang dimiliki individu mengenai cinta dan hubungan romantis. Fenomena ini menjadi relevan pada emerging adults karena individu pada tahap perkembangan ini sedang berada dalam proses eksplorasi identitas, kedekatan emosional, serta pembentukan harapan terhadap hubungan romantis. Oleh karena itu, penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menguji hubungan antara parasocial relationship dan romantic beliefs pada emerging adults penggemar idol K-Pop. Pendekatan yang digunakan adalah kuantitatif korelasional dengan teknik purposive sampling. Penelitian ini melibatkan 265 responden berusia 18–25 tahun yang aktif menggunakan media sosial sebagai penggemar K-Pop. Instrumen penelitian menggunakan Parasocial Relationship Scale (PRS) yang dikembangkan oleh Claessens dan Van den Bulck (2015) dan Romantic Beliefs Scale (RBS) yang dikembangkan oleh Sprecher dan Metts (1989). Analisis data dilakukan menggunakan teknik korelasi Pearson Product Moment. Hasil analisis menunjukkan terdapat hubungan positif antara parasocial relationship dan romantic beliefs (r = 0,339; p < 0,01). Temuan ini mengindikasikan bahwa semakin tinggi intensitas parasocial relationship yang dirasakan penggemar idol K-Pop, maka semakin tinggi juga romantic beliefs yang dimiliki oleh individu.
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